1. Do you like to feel the power of controlling somone sexually? Does it feel natural for you to decide when and how your partner experiences pain and pleasure
yes
no
sometimes depends on my mood
2. Do you like to be restrained and teased with pleasure or pain? Do you like the feeling of being helpless during a sexual encounter?
NO!
YES!
Sometimes depending on my mood!
3. Do you find it erotic to hurt your partner? Do you like to hear a gasp of pain when you bite, step on, scratch, spank, whip or torture them in anyway not deemed as pleasurable (i e tickling)
YES!!
NO!!
Sometimes depending on my mood!
4. Do you find yourself being happier pleasing your partner or being please by them?
pleasing them!
being pleased
A mixture of being pleased and pleasing them equally
5. Have you ever gotten even more turned on from doing any of the following to your partner. spanked, whipped, kicked, stepped on, bitten (hard enough to break or bruise skin) slapped or harshly pulled a partners hair?
yes
no never
I have done some or most of the above and have also had them done to me!
6. Have you ever used any of the following on a sexual partner? Cuffs, restraints, spreader bars, whips, clamps, weights, canes and or crops, candle wax, high heel shoes/boots?
yes
no
i have used them as well as had them used on me
7. have you ever had any of the following used on you by a partner? Cuffs, restraints, spreader bars, whips, clamps, weights, canes and or crops, candle wax, high heel shoes/boots?
no
yes
i have used them as well as had them used on me