1. Alright, so you think you’re in love. A lot of love happens pretty instantly. We assume, if you’re in love, that you remember when you first met. What went through your mind the first time you met the person you love?
I don’t remember what I was thinking when I met him or her, I just remember afterwards I couldn’t think of any one else for days. This person was just always on my mind (has been ever since). I was blown away by the person, I literally couldn’t speak at all. I just sat there gawking at him or her for hours. I remember thinking this was a person I wanted in my life for a long time to come. I don’t really remember. It was so long ago. I’m sure I thought he or she was attractive or something. It’s just hard to recall right now. Omg! The first time we met it was this dizzying array of fire works and connection. I can’t remember what we talked about, I just remember we talked all night long and never had a lapse in conversation. The chemistry between us was palpable.
2. Buzz! Buzz!!! You’re love has just sent you a text message. What do you do?
I’ll read it over and over again, trying to parcel out the true meaning behind the message. I mean, ''Hey, wats up'' could mean just about anything, right? Why does he/she have to be so cryptic? Die of shock. This person has never texted me before. OMG! This is obviously the beginning of a relationship. Read it and laugh. He/she knows me so well, they always know just what to say to make the day entertaining. I’ll read it later. He/she is always sending me something. I can’t stop what I’m doing and read something the minute it hits my phone. Read it and respond. We both love having text conversations. Even if it’s just a few words, hearing from him or her in the middle of the day always makes me happy.
3. How do you express your love to the person you adore?
We haven’t exactly gotten to the point where we say ''I love you,'' but I think we’re getting there. There are some moment when he or she is just looking at me and I know he/she feels the same way I do. Ummm, well, I haven’t exactly told the person how I feel yet. But I write notes to myself with big hearts around his or her name. I don’t really. By this point it’s just pretty much assumed. I mean we’ve been in love so long, to keep saying it gets redundant. In person, through text, via IM, on his or her personal page. I pretty much tell the person I love that I love them ten to twelve times a day in various ways. Easy, we just looking into one another’s eyes and say I love you. It’s that simple.
4. The weekend is rolling around again. What do you and your significant other have planned?
We’re spending Saturday together. The whole day is set aside for one another, though we will have a good mix of personal time and time with friends. We feel it’s good to be diverse. Well, I heard that he/she is going to this party on Friday night. So I was thinking of going and trying to get up the courage to talk to him or her. I don’t know. I’m sure we’ll come up with something. We usually spend at least a few hours together every weekend. We were going to go to this movie that we both really wanted to see. Then we’ll probably spend some time hanging out at just talking. Even though we see each other all the time, it still feels like we never have enough time together to say everything we want to say. We spend every single moment together on the weekends. So I don't really have to plan ahead.
5. Okay, we know that you don’t want to think about this, but if the person you are in love with broke up with you, what would you do?
I’d be upset, but happy too. If they broke up with me that means we were actually dating for a little while. Well, I could honestly say I would know what it was like to have a broken heart. Move on. It’s the only thing to do, right? I’d be totally devastated. I’m not really sure I could survive. Uk, it’s too horrible to even think about. I’d be sad, but confidant that we would always be in touch. We’re too close not to be friends at least.