1. So how did you guys break up?
I just had enough, he keeps cheating/lying/hurting me. He said, he was unhappy and he feels stuck in our relationship. We both agreed that we cannot be together We always break up over so much stupid shit these days, I dont remember. I dont think that he is the one, things are rocky between us. We didnt break up, but we had a huge fight. I hate fighting!
2. How do you feel about the break up?
Accomplished, I am so glad I am out of that situation. Sad, I wonder what I did wrong? So many emotions, happy, sad, mad, depressed, lonely, enthused.... a bit relieved, i feel it was the right move deep down. However I feel a little regret, i cant see myself without him. Empty, I really do love him, but I dont know if things will continue to go sour because of this or better. I hope I made the right decision. Unhappy, I want my man back.
3. Define Ex-Boyfriend, using your emotions and this previous experience....
A word that descibes losers that didnt make the cut. someone who loves and leaves you, a jerk. Someone who was your man but things just didnt work, but you can still have fun with. Someone who you just cannot get on the same page with so they are your past. A man or boy, with whom you have difficulties with, you might still love but will go no where without effective communication. Im trying not to think of the word ex....
4. If you saw him with someone else, how would you feel?
Thankful, im glad he found someone else. Broken, He moved on this quick? On the fence, I would be a little bummed but he happy for him because he is a cool dude and deserves happiness. Jealous, then I'd be on the move to be out with someone else the next week. Bittersweet, I wanted to be with him but eh, oh well I guess he is happy, I know I will find someone else. Mad, was I that ditch worthy over a little fued?
5. What love song explains your break up?
Ephinany By Christlette Michelle. Im leaving you! The break-up by Mario, Gucci and Sean Garret. Im loving you, Why do you want to break up? Torn By Latoya Luckett: Torn between the two, I really want to be with you but something is telling me I should leave. Emotional Rollercoaster: Vivian Green. Loving you aint nothing healthy. Love By Keyshia Cole: I didnt know love till I found you... Id rather: By Luther Vandross I rather have hard times with you than good times with someone else.
6. How do you feel about dating other people?
Good about it, I know I will find another. Sad, I thought I found the one until he left. Indifferent, Im just not ready to move on just yet, I got unfinished buisness. I dont want any if's left in my mind when i break up. I know he feels the same way. Hopeful, I would be open to dating someone who liked the way i did things and how i thought. I just want peace. Okay, I guess. I know it is apart of moving on, i just wished things would have gotten better. Not ready, Im not ready to be with someone else just yet, im still in love with him.
7. You ran into your ex, what now?
Say not a damn thing and keep walking. Hi, almost choking with tears and then walk away in fear of embarrasment. Hey and then give him a hug, and talk about the day. Talk for five minuets then it turns into an arguement and storm out the room. Smile and talk casuaelly, but move your seperate ways. Look down and around, and then back into his eyes, cry and tell him you miss him.
8. You had a dream about him last night, what was it about?
Him falling over a cliff, good thing that was a dream Him giving me a kiss and then dissapearing into a crowd of gorgeous woman. Him and I suspended in mid air holding hands but our back were turned. Him and I arguing as usual. The same ol' same ol'. Him and I sitting at a dinner table, we cannot talk because our tongues are tied, literally. Making out, and making up! Yummy.
9. Does he call you anymore? Come by? Ask your friends how you are doing?
Yes, but I dont care. No, nothing.. As if he fell off the face of this earth. Yes as usual, Yes, but all we do is argue and there is so much tension. Or dead silence. He asks my friends how im doing and do I think of him... I do secretly. He brings flowers, poems, even concert tickets to my favorite band.
10. Do you have kids by him or are married to him?
No, and Im glad. No, maybe if so, he would have stayed. We have kids and are married, we try to keep things cordial for our family. We have kids, but we dont want them to see us like this. It is so unhealthy. We arent married, but thought about it. Sometimes, I think about it when I miss him. We are engaged/married. He is my soulmate. No, but just because we dont have kids or arent married doesnt mean I dont love him any different or him for me. Im too young to be married or have kids